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a little scary...
Today I had a routine check-up with my radio-oncologist. She found a small nodule (word she used, for lack of better word), in my right breast. My cancer was in the left breast, but I had reduction surgery on the right in Nov. My breasts are very dense, but I was able to feel what she felt, and it seemed to be rather…
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Update
Okay, I'm fine. (!!!) It turned out to be exactly what my doctor suspected, a small nodule of fat necrosis that should dissipate on it's own. I had a bad moment when I arrived because I thought it was going to be a simple, quick thing. But the receptionist said it would be about two hours and my husband would have to wait…
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Fain Friday
Fain: happy; inclined; pleased Any plans for this weekend (if you still demarcate the week that way)? Feel free to mention any other topic!
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Thankful Thursday
Hi, everyone. I am especially thankful these days and it encouraged me to start a Thankful Thursday post. About ten days ago my husband suffered a brain bleed. He was in ICU for several days. He has some residual issues but, in general, seems to be doing well. We're taking it one day at a time. So I'm thankful my husband's…
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Anybody else having trouble with Chrome signing you out of WN , citing security?
It pitts me off. I have this problem here and with Country Doctor on Wordpress. I do not have trouble with other sites at all. I am talking about Instagram, bulk food companies-(COVID)- and other commercial enterprises. O My DAWG---these companies associated with Chrome and Google won't let me buy, unless I give them my…
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Couldn't post on the ? of getting WN-so here I am
Now, I get something from WhatNext about every 3 months. I wonder if it is because I'm a head cancer patient, as Greg was also a head cancer patient. Most people have other types of cancers. I guess I'm spoiled, but it would really be nice to get-whatever you call it-like this at least once a month.
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Can you put a price on an extended period of time added to your life?
I didn't think so either, but then we got the hospital bill for my laryngectomy surgery. So, the best I can add it up so far, we are pushing $500K and the number it says I owe is 164,000.00. First things first, I wonder if they take checks? I'll just fire one off to them and take care of that. Second, the "extended period…
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How good are you at playing "bite your tongue" when someone says something about your cancer?
I'm talking about people that are close to you, like an in-law, brother, sister, mom, dad, but one of those that you really don't want to release the flying monkeys on? My MIL is very opinionated and she tends to push her opinions on me about my cancer, which she knows nothing about but pretends to be a world-renowned…
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Decision Point | What I should do.
Not sure if I should have surgery or radiation?
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Thankful Thursday
So, what does everyone feel thankful for today?
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Oh No | Cancer has spread/Metastasized
His cancer has spread to his adrenal glands and he is scheduled for surgery mid May. We cannot get him his surgery until he pays off the 150,000 dollar balance from February through now. We will make it happen but then what comes next?
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Oh No | Health insurance issue
How is this possible!!!!??? $35,000 for a months supply of medication! These new medications are meant to replace chemotherapy. Tagrisso and Tabrecta. He has Tri-Care insurance as he is a retired Marine but it seems that stage 3/4 are not covered? He makes great money but it is still depleting rapidly with all of the…
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Drug or Chemo Therapy | Hormone therapy
Have been taking Anastrozole since 11/2020; so far so good.
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No longer have normal erections since my oper...
No longer have normal erections since my operation.
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Go To Tuesday
A go to song that always makes you think of someone in particular? Or one that brings back a specific memory?
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Off the Rails
Okay, this site has gone completely off the rails. I feel certain it is because of a comment that was read and received in a manner that was not at all what was intended. Nonetheless, we are where we are. I feel that my presence here is more toxic than the most offensive chemotherapy. I am not saying this because I am hurt…
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Something light
Gosh, there is so much going on! I really think we all have CTS (current traumatic stress syndrome!) with all the shut downs and failing business going on around us and it's the holidays, for darn sakes! I am heartbroken to miss seeing my grandchildren, they are growing every minute and we can't get this time back. But it…
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Monday Musing
Let’s see if we can’t get some conversation going here. What three words best describe you? I can start... Caring Stubborn Empath
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Go To Tuesday
I don't think I am the Tuesday floater, but I wanted to try to get some conversation going. You don't have to answer all (or any) of these, but just something to think about. Just something to perk up our minds to think of positive things. I think we have all developed some "go to" activities that we enjoy when we can't…
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Staying Safe- What is it really?
In another thread I mentioned that our county has relaxed their mask mandate. I did say I hope it is a success because it will make it a little less unpleasant to be outside during the hot humid summer that is approaching. Heck, for several days last week, it had already arrived. So if it's been that hot in early April-…
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Long Time Gone
I have been a hermit like so many others for the past year. It's nice to be back. It has been a little over a year since my diagnosis and my surgery. I have an appointment with my surgeon next month to discuss whether to continue with a prosthetic or get reconstruction. I am doing okay without having the real thing, but…
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SITE ANNOUNCEMENT: Content Ideas
Hello WhatNext! I wanted to pop in again and introduce myself for those that may not have been on in a while. My name is Colby and I'm the managing editor of a rare disease news website called Patient Worthy. I have stepped in to help with spam and moderating duties. I wanted to say a special thank you to LegalJen and…
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Wondering Wednesday
I have been wondering about some of the people who used to be quite active on the site. Has anyone heard from @JaneA?@Po18guy?@Lynne-I-Am?@Jayne? I know there used to be so many active members here. I miss the information and the chit chat.
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Lift and Balance?
Today I will be having a Covid test to clear me for elective surgery this coming Monday. They call it a *Lift and Balance,* but it is basically a breast reduction so I will match my lumpectomy side. It will be done on my right breast and I wasn't the least concerned about it until I took on a project that requires a lot of…
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Renal Cell Carcinoma
How very sad to come back each day and see our community falling apart. I hate to admit that I can't see how we can keep this going. All of Greg's devotion gone. I pray that each and every one of us improves and are able to enjoy the time given us. God Bless.
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SITE ANNOUNCEMENT: Feedback
I wanted to say thank you to everyone that has reached out to provide feedback so far. I know there has been some uncertainly about WhatNext and some of you have reached out directly to ask questions, so I want to give some insight into what I've been told. As the community knows best, Greg's passing left many unanswered…
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Celebration | Anniversary
NO reccurrance after 1 year
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Shots/Vaccinations Scheduled
I got my vaccination scheduled for this coming Friday. Hubby's too.
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To anyone who has been diagnosed: biomarker testing?
I work for Health Literacy Media, a nonprofit that writes clear health information to help people make informed health decisions. We write summaries of the results from clinical trials to help patients understand them. We've recently written a summary on a clinical trial for people with lung cancer. We need people who have…
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Fun Friday
Does anyone have something fun planned for the weekend? Our county eliminated mask mandates but some municipalities still have it. So it will be interesting to see how this first mask free weekend goes. I hope we don’t end up with lots of new COVID cases. I hope it’s a success. Not because I am ideologically opposed to…
