Update on my Husband
Bug
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Hi, everyone. I'm writing to let you know that my sweet, brilliant and silly husband passed on March 22. I'm heartbroken. I don't know if anyone is even going to see this post because of the way the site is running these days but I wanted to say something because so many of you have been so kind and supportive. Thank you, thank you for your love and support.
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Thank you for telling us, Bug. I have been thinking of him (and you) this past week and wondering? I am deeply sorry for your loss, I hope it was gentle. And I hope you are surrounded with loving people, you will need them for a while. Now, I am even more upset that this site is so messed up because I know there are a LOT of us who have been following your journey and would welcome the opportunity to reach out to you. Somehow we have to get this right, because it is important for us to stay connected. Be kind to yourself right now, Bug.0
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Bug, I don't know you, but please accept my sympathy for your loss. Please use this site as an outlet for your thoughts. I'm sure many of us are still here for you.0
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Oh, Bug, I am so sorry for your loss. It is never easy to lose a loved one, even when you know it is coming. I am so sad for you. Learning to no longer be part of a couple takes time. Take all the time you need. I hope your memories will help you through all of this. We are here for you.0
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Bug, I'm so sorry to hear this. I did receive this, so somehow some important things are getting posted. We are all keeping you in our thoughts; take care.0
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Bug>Been thinking of you and your husband.So sorry for your lost.0
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I'm so sorry to hear of your dear husband's passing. My thoughts are with you.0
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My sincerest condolences to you. My thoughts are with you in your grief.0
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Bug, I am sorry for your loss. Hopefully the pain you now feel will be filled with warm memories and many laughs. Greg’s A team is still here when a teammate is hurting! Hugs!!0
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I am so sorry about your husband. Please take time and care for yourself. Don't let anyone rush you into any decisions you are not ready to make.0
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My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I am so sorry this site is not working correctly. Know that those of us who have been faithful followers will be thinking about you and we all wish we could do more for you at this time.0
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Bug, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Please know that I am thinking about you and care about you. As others have said, please be gentle with yourself and take the time to grieve. This is a sad time for you. I hope you have people around you who are kind and supportive.0
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A Big Hug to Bug,
I am so sorry. Might it be time for another Bug namesake? That's the only big change that could help. Be kind to yourself and let the grief flow or it'll stay bottled up. Any good support groups around you?0 -
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your husband. I'm not sure if you remember me but I'm Greg's sister in law. Donna is my sister. I see her grieving and it crushes me. I feel so helpless. Lean on your family and friends. Never be afraid to show your emotions. Everyone grieves differently. Do what makes you happy. Take care of yourself.0
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I don't know who saw the photo,but should tell Bug it's safe to open.It's a phot about her lost.It's also on mu home page in case she could not see it here.I'm really losy in sharing photos on here.Please forgive me.0
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Oh, Bug, I wish I was there to give you a big hug in person! I'm so sorry your dear husband passed. I've been dreading hearing this news. It's a strange thing that happens when you know the inevitable is coming, and you start a sort of anticipatory grief process. It doesn't diminish the grieving process afterwards, I've found, just prolongs it. I hope you are surrounded by loving family to help you through this. And I hope the day comes soon, where you see something that reminds you of him and you smile, rather than tear up. Peace Love Blessings.0
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Dearest Bug, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved. I wish I knew of some magic potion that could take away the grief. You are loved, admired here, we care about you having to endure the unimaginable loss of your husband. Just love across the miles from us...darn.0
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Oh my sweet friend Bug! I'm so very sad for the loss of your husband. No words...
May his memory bring sweet blessings through the days to come.
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I came on to see if there was any update and I'm glad I did. So, so sorry Bug.0
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Just catching up with this but want to add my condolences along with the others. So sorry. This sweet, silly guy will live on in your memory. Hold it dear.0
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