Decision Point | LEGAL SUIT

Lyssa

Please if anyone reads this and would like to help. I think that I must file a lawsuit if only to save others from the pain and suffering that I was/am still subjected to. I have read many others experience with breast cancer, and have not ever read that this is a common practice of doctors. I fear that I now have PTSD. IT SADDENS ME GREATLY TO KNOW THAT AFTER ALL THIS TREATMENT....I MAY NEVER BE ABLE TO SEE MYSELF ANYWHERE NEAR THE SAME AGAIN.

MarcieB

Of course this is your decision. I would like to encourage you to take a little time to think on it before you act? Have you discussed it at all with an attorney? Taking on a hospital could end up being an expensive, frustrating experience.

legaljen1969

Lyssa, first let me say that I feel just terrible that you have had to endure such unpleasant physicians. It certainly makes a terrifying situation (cancer) even more difficult to face. It's a little easier when you feel like your physicians care about you. Often it's the doctor who lacks bedside manner and compassion. My primary care doctor has the worst nurse ever. My doctor is amazing. His nurse? Straight from the pits of the fiery furnace. Ugh!! Anyhow, you certainly have the right to seek other care.

I have found that oncology practice providers are either very jaded and closed off OR they are some of the most compassionate caregivers you'll ever know.

legaljen1969

I do not wish to sound patronizing, but before you seek legal recourse, know that being a jerk is not illegal. Unconscionable,yes. Illegal, no.
You may have gotten a sense from some of your other caregivers if they think the early removal of the drains rises to the level of malpractice. There are always those doctors that people accept, but you can see the raised eyebrows or rolling eyes, or the " Im going to check with my supervisor" Unfortunately hospitals seem to be the place we are most likely to pick up an infection. I feel certain there is probably a universal standard at which it is acceptable to remove them, and some doctors may have different measures beyond that. There may have been some reason your doctor took them out earlier. Perhaps signs of infection existed, prompting the early removal. Causation can be tricky. It seems funds are an issue for you, but perhaps you know someone who could review your records. I get my doctors notes via hospital portal after each visit. I review them all the time. I know there are more " behind the scenes" notes but I review what I get for any errors.

Talk with other people and get recommendations for other oncologists. I definitely think a second opinion is in order if for no other reason than your peace of mind that either 1. You are getting medically appropriate treatment and need a more caring environment OR 2. To validate your feeling that something is amiss and you need a change for your well being.

I would also recommend a therapist or other mental health professional to come alongside you and help you untangle some of your fear and apprehension.

Maybe it's just a terrible fit. Maybe it's malpractice. Maybe your oncologist is a heartless jerk.

It certainly can't hurt anything to talk to an attorney. That's why they offer consultations. It doesn't mean you're going to have to file suit. It just means you're asking someone with the appropriate expertise and knowledge to find out is something is wrong that they can help you remedy.

You go to a mechanic to fix your car. Sometimes you need a new car. Sometimes it's just a sound you've never noticed before.

Just ask the questions.

I hope you find answers that give you peace of mind.

Carool

I’m writing only to add that I was in therapy (through a clinic, as I couldn’t afford a private therapist) prior to, during, and after my breast cancer treatments, and I found therapy to be of great help.