Hi, don't worry too much about being a buzzkill. I've been one since the 1960s-- IBS. I cannot eat foods that are hot. I have to wait  for it to cool down or be in great pain or even the ER.  For some reason this wouldn't post.   A person can't even say Please- no ice water, just room temp water please---The waiters freak out and try to argue with you. Spain is the only place, where  they say, OK and get me room temp water.  I tell people- do you want me sick or what?   if someone keeps asking you and they are not cooking the meal---Tell them that you don't want to get sick. I find it much worse to be in the ER doubled up and having explosive diarrhea.  I tell them that too.
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         January 2015