dreamrestorer

We have not heard from you in awhile...hoping all is well with you, please checkin with us...hope your daughter has a good school year!

Just wanted to say hello to another east tennessian! I live about 2hrs south of you near Knoxville. I, too, was diagnosed at a young age (33) with stage 3 and am now 5yrs out. I would love to help you in anyway or answer any questions (nothing is too personal!!). Hang in there and know it can be overcome!!

I wish you didn't have to find this page, but I am glad you are here. I have been here only a short time, but these are some of the greatest people around. Remember, the only stupid question, is the one unasked. I have 2 ears open 24/7/365. You are going to be just fine.

After I read your experience, I wanted to let you know I will be praying for you. Take time to buy the book right away and get in touch with a breast cancer support group.

Since you are so young with a stage II, first step is to purchase Dr. Susan Love's Breast Book. I have seen new copies on Amazon for $15 and used for about $3. It is the Bible for people with breast cancer. I am not a fast reader but once I opened it, I couldn't put it down and had finished it in about 2 weeks or less. It is fairly lengthy, but cancer is a very complex issue affecting all aspects of you and your family's lives. Focus on taking good care of yourself, eat right to keep a healthy immune system. If you are not comfortable with your doctors even if they come highly recommended, get to another practice quickly. I learned the hard way that you have to feel comfortable with the doctors. There will be plenty of them as u will learn in the book. I am here for you, am a breast cancer survivor of 7 years in June, and wish you the very best in this journey

Welcome to the site. I think that you will find this a friendly bunch of people who are ready and willing to help in any way they can if you have a question or just want to vent or sound off. All of us have been in your shoes at some point and time in our lives and that is why we are members of this site. We have all had cancer. Don't be afraid to ask questions because no question is silly or dumb according to us. Most of the time you will find that there is an answer to your question from someone who has been there done that. I know I have met many nice people since I have been on this board and they all have been so encouraging and friendly in answering my questions or just making a comment to one of my comments. Good luck to you.

Hello and welcome, we are glad you found us. Please feel free to join in the conversations. Here is a link to our cancer dx page for your type of cancer. Take a look at it to get you started on some information. You will notice at the bottom of that page 4 of our active users who have had that journey already, you may wish to contact them for their experience and wisdom. Also, I encourage you to go to the questions page now by clicking on the questions tab at the top of the page and post what is the most pressing issue you have right now. This will introduce you to the community and get you started on the help you need right now.

https://www.whatnext.com/conditions/cancer/breast-cancer

There are also subtypes listed on this page to narrow down the type of cancer to match your dx.

You may also find our "Beginner's Guide To Cancer" page helpful Click Here for that=> http://bit.ly/10BQKCi

Also, if you can take a few minutes and fill in some details of your journey so far, it will help others as they try to answer questions for you, it also helps others as they search through the data base to find someone like themselves. Confirming your email will allow you to receive updates and notices from the site when someone answers your questions or writes on your wall.

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GregP
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Welcome...sorry you had a need to find us but so glad you did...these first few days and weeks are the worst...once you have your plan in place it seems more manageable...we can fill you on lots of things once you know what you will be doing...I usually recommend having someone with you for your appointments because it can all be very overwhelming, however, it would be OK to go alone but be sure to get yourself a small notebook of binder where you can list all your questions, record answers and put all your contact information (surgeon, oncologist, nursing support, etc). Do not rely on your memory alone. Larger cancer centers have sessions for children whose parents/ grandparents are experiencing cancer and all the changes that come along with it and these are great for the kids...you can probably find other support meetings. for children through your oncologist...let your daughter's teacher know in the fall, as school is almost done in most parts of the country very soon, so she can watch for any behavioral changes, sadness, etc. in your daughter. (I am assuming you will not be having surgery before the end of this school year as you were just diagnosed). Your recovery will be easier if you are not worrying about your daughter...you will have lots of questions and we have lots of answers! We are friends you just haven't met yet! I wish you good luck and God bless! Keep in touch.

Hi dreamrestorer. Noticed you were just diagnosed and wanted to reach out. I was diagnosed in mid last year with Stage II breast cancer. Went through lumpectomy, 4 months of chemo and 6 weeks of radiation. Your mind must be spinning... Please let me know if I can answer any questions or help in any way.

Hi, dreamrestorer. I see you're newly diagnosed and new to this web site. It's a really wonderful group of people - very kind, helpful and supportive. Your first "experience" mentioned having moved away from your family. I know it isn't the same as having them physically near you but know we're here for you. Take care.

Welcome to the WhatNext family! The WhatNext family is made up of people like you who are looking for help or looking to help others. To help you along your journey the WhatNext family has put together a Beginner's Guide to Cancer that I highly recommend you check-out here: http://bit.ly/10BQKCi. Also, please do not hesitate to reach out to others or ask for help.

Wishing you the best.

David
Founder, WhatNexter