SharonC

I also have Triple Negative Breast Cancer. It is very scary. I did get a port because I read up on it and it does make getting chemo much easier. Getting chemo is the easiest part. The side effects are not so easy, but the good news is, there has been a solution from my oncologic team to deal with each one of them. The problem is you don't know which side effects you will get until you have them. Good Luck to you. I only have two more Taxol chemo treatments left. It goes faster than you think. There is an end to this. Just take it one treatment at a time. Keep the number of your nurse practitioner handy. When you feel a side effect (mouth sore, throat sore, nausea, aching bones etc.) call the nurse. They want to know and so far for me, have a solution to the problem.

Hi fellow Floridian, I know exactly how you feel and am so sorry you have to go through this journey. I didn't have chemo but it has been 3 weeks since my bilateral mastectomy. The worst part is behind me now and what a relief! I also did not want to do it and cried a LOT in the beginning. I was a wreck but with the support of all these wonderful people on whats next and a lot of research and prayers and tons of questions I was able to come to grips with what I had to do. You are stronger than you think and will get through this. Hugs to you!

Hi Sharon. I am not too far from you if you stayed in Cape Coral. I notice that you said you had to move. You are dealing with a lot of stress at once. Husband gone, moving and especially the cancer. I am going to be 54 in a few weeks. I am just coming back into a full life after dealing with stage 4 breast cancer. I was not triple neg. but it was Her2 positive. It can be scary because there are so many unknowns. This is a wonderful place to meet people that now or have had cancer. Welcome to the WhatNext family.

Hi Sharon...I am also TN, was diagnosed about six mths ago and already completed chemo. I am 57 yrs old. Will be having my surgery on Monday 9-8 and had wonderful results with chemo. Wishing you well on your journey and drop me a line anytime.

So sorry for your situation. I can't even begin to think how it would be to have all that you have and then your husband leaving you a week ahead. I am your same age and have made it through radiation treatments (I opted to NOT have chemo) but my husband of 36 years is so supportive. I hope you have family and friends to help you through this. I will pray for you. Stay strong and positive.

Hello and welcome, we are glad you found us. Please feel free to join in the conversations. Here is a link to our cancer dx page for your type of cancer. Take a look at it to get you started on some information. You will notice at the bottom of that page 4 of our active users who have had that journey already, you may wish to contact them for their experience and wisdom. Also, I encourage you to go to the questions page now by clicking on the questions tab at the top of the page and post what is the most pressing issue you have right now. This will introduce you to the community and get you started on the help you need right now.

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There are also subtypes listed on this page to narrow down the type of cancer to match your dx.

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Welcome to the site. I am sure that you will find this a friendly place to come when you need someone to talk to. We are all in the same boat when it comes to emotions and feelings about our health. Just know that no question is to silly to ask and if you need to vent because you are having a bad day, we are here for you. I hope you find this site as helpful to you as it has been for me.

I have no problems with my port....I am so grateful for it when I see someone new at the chemo center get stuck many times trying to find a vein..Chemo isn't horrible...yes, there are side effects but deal with each one as it comes. Remember, this is not forever. It is an investment of your time in order to have a longer and more productive life.Good Luck.

Sharon, we all have our fears and concerns, especially at the beginning. What should we do? Where do we go for the best treatment? What will happen to me and my family? Please try to deal with one day at a time so you don't feel overwhelmed by the unknowns. Also, with TNBC you need to understand that chemo is our best weapon against it. Side effects? Well, your oncology team will guide you through them all...there are remedies to all of them. It is tough, yes, but please summon your inner strength and plow through these difficult days. Life is worth it. YOU are worth it!

Hi! Welcome to WhatNext! I am sorry there was a need for you to find us, but am glad that you did. We are a diverse group of patients and caregivers who come together to share experiences, ask questions, and give one another hope. We are glad you have joined our group!

Hello...you will find wonderful people, information and support here. Please let us know if we can help in any way. Be sure to ask questions using the "questions" tab at the top of the page and also join in our discussions. We are all frightened when faced with the prospects of this difficult journey. We are here for you and each other.
Once you have a plan of action and get started with your treatments you will feel a bit better. Anything you do not understand you must discuss with your oncologist, surgeon, and/or other members of your team. We can give you our experience but we are all so different and respond uniquely. Please do not consider doing nothing because you are afraid.
Ask for clarifications. Check out the information here on ports. Most folks are very happy they had them.
Sending along best wishes and a sincere welcome.

I want to welcome you to WhatNext.....a great place to meet individuals like yourself who are asking questions...sharing their experience...and looking for hope! Feel free to jump right in...

Hi, SharonC. I have not had chemo so can't address your concerns - though I know the idea is very scary. How about posting a question to the community? Folks here are so kind and happy to help. Please take care and know that we're here for you.

Welcome to the WhatNext family! The WhatNext family is made up of people like you who are looking for help or looking to help others. To help you along your journey the WhatNext family has put together a Beginner's Guide to Cancer that I highly recommend you check-out here: http://bit.ly/10BQKCi. Also, please do not hesitate to reach out to others or ask for help.

Wishing you the best.

David
Founder, WhatNexter