Canuck

I have found that regardless of what anyone (family, friends or strangers) may think, you have to do what you feel is the right thing for you. Those of us with this type of cancer are the only ones who can manage it and our lives to be the best that it can be. I've fought with many doctors with regard to chemo and I have to admit it probably did save my life INITALLY, but in the long run, it served it's purpose and at this point in time it is really only detrimental to my quality of life. I am very blessed in that I now have a oncologist that will work with me and honor my decisions with regard to my treatment. That, to me, is the best I can ask for. Take good care of yourself and enjoy your new lease on life without pain. You know, I remember when I was first diagnosed and going through treatment (chemo), I kept thinking that I couldn't wait to get back to my "normal" life once it was over. Little did I know that I was entering a NEW normal and it would never be over. But, I thank God each day that I am still alive and try to make the very best of it. I like the saying, "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger". So....stay strong Sheila!!! Please always feel free to write to me if I can help in any way. Sandy

Hi Canuck, welcome to the site. I see kalindria has given you a watt welcome as well. We have both been on WhatNwxt since 2013 and she is one of the many friends I have made on the site since I was diagnosed with stage IIIC serous epithelial ovarian cancer. I have read your experiences and see you are apparently dealing with a recurrence. What decision point are you referring to? None of our journeys are the same but there are similarities. Please reach out and ask questions , the community will be happy to give you their input. You can also talk one on one to any of us on our walls. Not easy of the treatments for this disease are easy, but they are DOABLE. There is nothing like talking with another survivor. WhatNexters are a community of caregivers and survivors and we are all here for each other.

Canuck, I want to recommend a site for you on Facebook. I have been a member of Sisterhood of Ovarian Cancer Survivors for years, They have hundreds of ( only female ) caregivers and survivors. I am sure there are many with slow growing ovarian cancer. Just ask to join. No screen names here. Just tell your story and ask your question.. You will be surprised by the numerous responses. What Next is a terrific site and has certainly helped me but for specific ovarian cancer questions the Sisterhood is great.

Hi, Canuck, and welcome to WhatNext.com. Wish you and I didn't need this site but since we do, welcome. It can be a great support and the people here are wonderful.

I was diagnosed in 2013 with stage IV ovarian cancer and, after treatment and surgery, was cancer free for two-and-a-half years. I went through my initial diagnosis, chemo and surgery in California then moved to the great state of Washington. I like rain!

In July of last year, I had a recurrence and started a clinical trial which went pretty well until this spring. The trial drugs stopped working so I had surgery in May and started chemo again in June. This summer, my oncologist told me I'm in remission again. Hope it lasts this time... At least I'm through with chemo for now.

WhatNext is a great place to connect with others who can help you, share experiences, answer questions, offer links to resources, and provide moral support. I think you'll like it.

Let me know if you have any questions or just want to chat. I'm here!

Welcome to the WhatNext family! The WhatNext family is made up of people like you who are looking for help or looking to help others. To help you along your journey the WhatNext family has put together a Beginner's Guide to Cancer that I highly recommend you check-out here: http://bit.ly/10BQKCi. Also, please do not hesitate to reach out to others or ask for help.

Wishing you the best.

David
Founder, WhatNexter