Tallgrass69

Thanks Tallgrass.I'm going to talk to my Dr. about that. I hope you are doing ok. Zoe

Popping in to check on you Tallgrass. I hope everything went okay yesterday. Thinking of you!

Thanks Tallgrass, that's really good to know.You went 2 1/2 years without having it flushed ? I didn't know you could do that,that's also good to know. Hope you're feeling well.

Thanks Tallgrass ! That helps. I'm not very good on the computer but I'm getting there. It was nice of you to reply. My husband and I moved to NY state about a year ago from Fl. to be close to my daughter after my surgery. I see you are in Fl. I don't know where you are but we were in the Naples area on the west coast. I miss it there sooo much.I'll take the heat anyday over these cold,cold winters. Altough I would rather be cold near my daughter than warm without her. Actually, i'm very grateful to be anywhere ! I hope you're feeling well today. Take good care, Zoe

Thanks for your response to my question about TRAM flap reconstruction. It's helpful to hear from somebody who has had the same thing. I'm sorry it was so miserable for you. I'm not sure I want to put myself through it and on both sides at once. Thanks for helping with the decision! Best of luck to you in your treatments.

Don't you give up!!!!!
You have been through a great deal already and I am really saddened to hear that this battle is not over for you. You are young and there is always hope. Get a 2nd opinion, keep reaching out, lean into the good and the strong and stay away from the dark and fear.

So happy your oldest son is there with you...seeing someone for your emotions is NEVER a sign of weakness but of strength in knowing you need some help...we all are here for you and I wish you better and happier days ahead. Enjoy being with your boys! God bless you all.

I would seek a second opinion on treatment possibilities if you are not satisfied where you are. Inspire is a site for advanced breast cancer, those gals are experts on dealing with all aspects. I am so sorry you are having this endless trauma in your young life.

Do not buy into anybody telling you that you will soon die! Only God knows. Treat everyday as a gift and go to bed expecting to get up in the morning . Can you get in a cancer support group so you won't be so alone? You need people around you to give you hope and support. Stay strong , stay positive. Hugs and prayers.

Hi dear i just loged on n read your post.. I was diagnose at age 44 with breast cancer.. I love what you said about thanking God every minute you wake up.... Yes i do the same and thats all we can do.. I will always remember you and your family in my prayers.. Your story is very inspiring to me.. I see strength an courage in you and that encourages me to push on.... All the best and stay encorage

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