Lauren65

Hi, Lauren65. I don't know if you remember seeing posts from me but I remember seeing posts from you. I just wanted to say Hello and see how you're doing. I hope you are well.

Hi, Lauren65. I saw your question where you said you were recently diagnosed with a reoccurrence to your bones. I just wanted to say that I'm sorry and I'm thinking of you and sending good thoughts and prayers and a warm hug.

Love the photo of you both, ya make a really nice looking couple!! But does he wear the "kilt"????;)))) GOOD and happy times to you both! fae the wee scot!

WELL I understand what you said BUT I AM no scammer,I tell everyone that contacts me I will show them the medical proof and I wont get the money I HAVE a CALIFORNIA MASTER TRUST set up at a funeral home it will collect all the funds untell there is ONLY the ammount needed to pay my cremation,an IF extra comes in it will be sent back to the donator..I answered TMASSIEs post in more detail of things I found out,and why i am asking for help,SO if you want to know more please read my message there,AN MAY GOD BLESS YOU connie moreno

Hi Lauren65,

First of all congrats on your engagement This news really made me smile, it made me think that there really are men out there that aren't grossed out by scars so thank you for telling me about your experience Reconstrution isn't and option for me for several reasons first being that I am TERRIFIED of needles so therefore I wouldn't willing have surgery and second of all because I had had radiation 13 yrs ago and the surgeon had to take so much skin to remove the breast and infected area there isn't enough left to do reconstruction. Honestly I wouldn't want to do reconstruction cause I would always have the fear of having to have the breast removed also. You are dead on right about my ex, the is a coward and an XXX because he didn't honor his marriage vows at all. Right now I have a pup who gives me unconditional love and he doesn't care that his momma is missing a breast he just loves me for me and thats helping me so much. At times when I am really having a hard time he seems to know it and comes over and gives me his little piggy paw to hold, almost like he is saying its ok momma just hold my hand and it will be all better. I thank all of you that are giving me so many encouraging words here and I know that in time everything will be alright but just for now its so dam hard. Again thank you so much for all your kind words and I am looking forward to getting to follow your journey and see how your doing. Have a good day.

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Hi Lauren, love your photo! Please let us know if there is anything we can help you with...questions, concerns, venting...the folks here are very supportive and knowledgeable...you sound like quite the warrior and I am glad you are part of us now...God bless!

Hi, Lauren65. It looks like you're new to the web site - welcome. It's a really wonderful group of people - very kind, helpful and supportive. It also looks like we're neighbors - sort of. I live in Dixon and work in Davis. Take care.

Welcome to the site. I think that you will find this a friendly bunch of people who are ready and willing to help in any way they can if you have a question or just want to vent or sound off. All of us have been in your shoes at some point and time in our lives and that is why we are members of this site. We have all had cancer. Don't be afraid to ask questions because no question is silly or dumb according to us. Most of the time you will find that there is an answer to your question from someone who has been there done that. I know I have met many nice people since I have been on this board and they all have been so encouraging and friendly in answering my questions or just making a comment to one of my comments. Good luck to you.

Welcome to the WhatNext family! The WhatNext family is made up of people like you who are looking for help or looking to help others. To help you along your journey the WhatNext family has put together a Beginner's Guide to Cancer that I highly recommend you check-out here: http://bit.ly/10BQKCi. Also, please do not hesitate to reach out to others or ask for help.

Wishing you the best.

David
Founder, WhatNexter