BarbCosta

Hi there ... His pain is worse and the Tramedol isn't helping much but he still seems so angry. His last radi was last Thursday. I hope today is better than yesterday. I hope this finds you well ... Just praying for a better day today. Yesterday was so painful. xo

Hi. Yes his anger is crazy but overall I'm finding out that his family has issues and I've seen them unfold before my eyes ... No kidding. My family has really been there - my 2 best girlfriends my mom. But he needs HIS family and they are very hands off. It's odd. So I see the "when things get tough run" philosophy running through to him - none of them are any help. Why would they? I'm doing what's needed. He won't allow visits and doesn't talk on the phone. So it's me and him and the dog. Anyhow, don't know what to expect coming up. I'm pretty emotional but I'm trying to be less fearful. Should something happen to us I am young and intelligent and I have options. But I'd just like my husband back. Not like before but healthy and grateful. I don't see that in him. I don't know.

Sounds like we have a lot of the same problems. BUT YES WE ARE ALIVE!

Bless you for surviving the cisplatin hell. Going in, I was told how horrible of a drug it was. One of the worst ones out there were the words I believe they used. I was given the option of 3 for sure bad experiences or eight maybe but very possible ones.Glad I chose the latter. Congratulations.

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