From our experience (81 yo father with SCLC), it was the Social Workers who pulled things together for us. First, the Oncologist and oncology SW arranged in-home palliative care (couple times a week); when my dad needed more help, it was a couple of SW at the hospital who arranged to get him into a palliative care/hospice facility. I'd check with your primary care doctors and ask if they can refer you to the appropriate SW and other resources.
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December 2013