I am writing to you rather than posting to the entire group. I have completed treatment for uterine cancer stage; 3c
diagnosed 11/11; hysterectomy, taxol and paraplatin, external and internal radiation and most recently had a hemicolectomy 9/12 because of a colon tumor;stage 2..
The surgeon said it was doubtful that I would need chemo(last treatment 7/12) but sent my reports to my medical oncologist.
(whom I don't always feel "safe" with.) He doesn't keep me informed and answers most of my questions with vague answers. He makes me feel like a nervous nellie rather than a cancer patient trying to be her own advocate. He tells me to call if I have concerns yet many times when I do, the call is not returned. I am not an assertive person
but I am getting angry with this situation. I don't think it is right to feel like a PIA to my medical oncologist.
It makes me feel alone. I mean, who do I contact? I have so many doctor's since this diagnosis. I feel little compassion from any of them other than my primary MD and cancer is not his specialty. Am I just over thinking all of this?would the doctors definately contact me if there was a problem or do we become just a paper on a desk?
Thanks for listening
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October 2012